Wife care for severe husband for 17 years, do not give up his son to resign, relay mom kasey chase

The wife took care of her husband of 17 years of severe resignation did not give up her son mother into Mingying relay for many years as one day to take care of her husband in. Mr. Wang Ming, Han Kailong, villager of Gu Ba village, Gaoyou Economic Zone, Chengnan, 51, 49 years old. When the old Han’s good health is a bricklayer, with the construction team working outside year round, his wife at home farming, son of lively and sensible, one family happy and happiness. At the age of 34, Han Kailong was seriously ill. For 17 years, Cheng Mingying didn’t buy a decent dress. The husband at least four times a year for dangerous diseases, and sent them to the intensive care unit by ambulance. Cheng Mingying never cared carefully, and touched every villager in the village. Because the physical strength is not as good as the past, holding 160 pounds weight husband, Cheng Mingying has been powerless. The son of a migrant worker in Nanjing recently went home to serve his father with his mother. Now, the 30 year old daughter-in-law supports the difficult family with the meager wage of working in Nanjing. A husband who was twice as good as a husband, a vegetable resident, almost living only with signs of life, was a warm-hearted man, Tang Chunshan. He repeatedly called reporters to help his village Cheng Mingying, a female neighbor who was in trouble because she cared for her husband for years. About the specific time for the interview, the reporter in the rain arrived at Gaoyou Xinlian road at twenty square meters, the low and wet rental, saw the hostess stood, was absorbed with the wheelchair husband watching tv. "Is this your husband?"" As soon as he enters the rental house, the reporter greets the middle-aged man sitting in the wheelchair without a face. The hostess said that the man sitting in the wheelchair was his husband, but he did not know the temperature and the lack of consciousness, similar to the only living signs of vegetables. "Look at the scar on your face. You fell down on a chair the other day." The hostess Cheng Mingying told reporters, when her husband’s good health is a bricklayer, with the construction team working outside year round, while farming at home, go to work in the factory in. Compared with others, although the days are not rich, but happy. Cheng Mingying recalled that in 1999, Han Kailong felt unwell when working outside the home. After returning home, Cheng Mingying accompanied her husband to the hospital and found that he had rheumatic heart disease. In order to further diagnose the disease, and then take her husband to other hospitals for examination, the results were the same. Neighbor: "thanks to the Ming care, otherwise he would be dead" husband was confirmed, the hospital recommended that Cheng Mingying first took out 200 thousand yuan admission surgery. Cheng Mingying said, the family is really difficult, so it should take 20 yuan huge medical expenses, but also simply prohibitively difficult. After many consultations with the doctor, the drug conservative treatment method was adopted. Sick after all these years, her husband Han Kailong completely lost the ability to work, children are minors on the study, the economic burden of the family of a sudden fall in the Mingying thin shoulder. Cheng Mingying said that her involvement in suffering is nothing, the most worried about her husband is at least four times a year, each attack is very dangerous, coma, shock, unconscious state, and multi chant

妻子照料重症丈夫17年不放弃 儿子辞职接力妈妈 成明英多年如一日照料重症丈夫。宏明摄   高邮城南经济新区浩芝村顾坝组村民韩开龙,今年51岁,妻子成明英49岁。老韩身体好的时候是一名瓦工,跟着建筑队常年在外打工,妻子在家务农,儿子活泼懂事,一家人其乐融融、幸福美满。34岁那年,韩开龙得了大病。17年来,成明英没买过一件像样的衣服。丈夫每年至少发凶险病情四次,都用救护车送重症监护室抢救。成明英不离不弃地细心照料,感动着当地每一位村民。由于体力大不如从前,抱着体重160斤的丈夫,成明英已经力不从心。在南京打工的儿子,近日回家与妈妈一起共同服侍爸爸。现在,30岁的儿媳妇用在南京打工的微薄工资,支撑着这个艰难的家。   被呵护倍至的丈夫,近乎于只有生命迹象的植物人   当地村民汤春山,是个热心人。他多次致电记者,替他们村里的成明英——一位因常年照料身患重症丈夫,目前身处困境的女邻居向媒体寻求帮助。约好具体采访时间,记者冒雨来到了位于高邮市新联路一处二十平米、低矮且潮湿的出租屋,只见女主人站着,正聚精会神地陪着轮椅上的丈夫看电视。   “这是您的老公吧?”一进入出租屋,记者便向坐在轮椅面无表情的中年男子打招呼。女主人表示,轮椅上坐着的男子,正是自己的丈夫,但他不知道冷暖、没有思维意识,近似于只有生命迹象的植物人。   “你看这脸上的伤疤,是前几天坐在椅子上跌下来的。”女主人成明英告诉记者,丈夫身体好的时候是一名瓦工,跟着建筑队常年在外打工,自己则在家务农,农闲时在厂里上班。与别人相比,虽说日子过得不算富有,但其乐融融。   成明英回忆,1999年,在外打工的韩开龙感觉身体不适,回家后,成明英陪着丈夫到医院检查发现,竟得了风湿性心脏病。为了进一步确诊病情,随后又将丈夫带至其它医院进行检查,查出的结果一样。   邻居:“多亏了明英照料,要不然他早就没命了”   丈夫病情得到确诊后,医院建议成明英先拿出20万元入院做手术。成明英说,当时家庭实在是困难,一下子要拿出20元巨额医疗费,简直比登天还要艰难。经过跟医生多次协商,采取了药物保守治疗法。   得病后的这些年,丈夫韩开龙彻底失去了劳动能力,孩子还未成年上着学,家庭的经济重担一下子落在了成明英单薄的肩上。成明英说,自己吃苦受累倒没什么,最令她担心的是,丈夫每年最少都要发病四次,每一次发病都十分凶险,呈昏迷休克、不省人事状态,且多为在深夜凌晨发生。每次丈夫夜里发重病时,吓得够呛的成明英都要第一时间镇静下来,及时联系120救护车来家里,将发病昏迷的丈夫急送医院重症监护室抢救。   “多亏了明英的照料,要不然他早就没命了。”81岁的邻居韩德胜爷爷感慨说,近20年来,可苦了成明英这个明事理的弱女子,“你看她的丈夫,我们在这屋子里说了半天话,她丈夫韩开龙一点反应都没有吧?不说别的,就每天24小给丈夫不间断地用手揉肩膀、大腿、翻身,这么多年坚持下来,不是一般人能够做到的。”   邻居汤春山用手拎起一塑料袋装得满满的尿不湿说,现在病重的韩开龙就像婴儿,下身总得塞着一张尿不湿。尽管这样,无意识的韩开龙还是经常将小便解到身上。正说着,轮椅上不能久坐的韩开龙刚躺在床上没20分钟,成明英给其揉捏大腿时,发现丈夫身下已经潮湿了一大片,随即从床头塑料袋里抽出一张尿不湿,动作娴熟地解下裤带,将干净的尿不湿塞好。   采访中记者注意到,窄小的出租屋里间,摆满了床、轮椅、抽水马桶以及放电视的柜子,在成明英的悉心打理下,狭窄房间里闻不到一丝异味。   女癌症患者被痴情女感动,捐钱挽救“病危丈夫”   “孩子他爸的生命能维持到现在,多亏一位恩人姐姐的救命之恩啊。”被称作恩人的姐姐,成明英一家人到现在连她姓甚名谁都不清楚,十分愧疚。提及那次帮助,成明英眼里噙满了泪水。   2012年临近春节,成明英清晰地记得是农历腊月二十二这天。丈夫被医院下了病危通知书,称丈夫已经没治愈的可能了,建议家属为其准备后事。在医院的楼道里,成明英望着被医生用推车推出来的面无血色的丈夫,扑通跪在了地上,抱着医生的大腿,哭喊着祈求医生救救自己的丈夫。   成明英撕心裂肺的哭喊声,惊动了整个楼栋的医生、病人。其中,一位来自该市二沟镇农村的一位45岁的胰腺癌女患者,让家人用轮椅推着自己来到哭成泪人的成明英面前,用十分微弱声音劝慰到:“大妹子,你别急,没什么过不去的坎,原本打算给你5000元的,现在,对于我来说,钱已经没任何意义了。这么着,给你们讨个吉利,弄个吉祥数,那就5800吧。”说着从怀里掏出一大沓带着体温的人民币,递至成明英的手里。   成明英回忆说,正是有了那位姐姐鼎力相助,同时,医院里的医生也被其不离不弃的行为打动,将躺在推车上的丈夫重新推进了手术室,进过全力抢救,韩开龙奇迹般地活了下来。   成明英说,当时拿到救命钱的那一刻,对素不相识比自己大12岁的姐姐,接连向对方询问名字。然而,坐在轮椅上姐姐面露微笑,没有透露半点身份信息。两天后,当成明英再次四处找人打探那位救命恩人的姓名时,好心姐姐却已经离开了人世。   儿子辞掉工作,回家与妈妈一起服侍重症爸爸   生性要强的称明英告诉记者,近20年来,她没向村里提过任何援助要求,若不是实在没办法撑下去了,她也绝不会找媒体援助。最近一次出院时,医院的出院记录诊断处写着:脑栓塞、风湿性心脏病、心房颤动(心病纤颤)、心脏扩大、以及肾结石等多钟并发症。   成明英说,近20年来,为丈夫治病前前后后花去了医疗费70万元。今年9月20日,原先住房被征用拆迁,拿到了70万补偿款后,立即还掉给丈夫看病拉下的债务58万元。现在是租住邻居20平米的低矮小屋,月房租220元。   由于自己体力大不如从前,抱着体重160斤的丈夫,成明英已经力不从心。前些日子,她跟自己在南京打工的儿子说:“妈妈年纪大了,爸爸现在病成这个样子,儿子你想想,要继续工作,还是要爸爸?”   “我当然要爸爸啦,爸爸只有一个,工作没了,以后还可以再找。”27日,儿子去南京打工的地方,和老板结账说明情况,回家与妈妈一起共同服侍爸爸。现在,全家仅靠身患红斑狼疮的30岁儿媳妇刘慧,在南京打工挣钱支撑着这个艰难的家。“赠人玫瑰、手有余香”,如果您想伸手援助身处困境的这家人,请与当事人成明英联系:15161417628。作者:陈咏相关的主题文章: